To the person who hurt someone so deeply... Who left trauma that was negated, who wasn't accountable, who knows exactly what they did, and whose true colours and who you really are were revealed in the way that you showed no remorse at all for what you know you did.

 

To the person who hurt someone so deeply...

Who left trauma that was negated, who wasn't accountable, who knows exactly what they did, and whose true colours and who you really are were revealed in the way that you showed no remorse at all for what you know you did.

Who showed no empathy, and no compassion for how you made the person who loved you and was dedicated to you feel.

Here's what you need to understand...

They don't want to meet you again.

In fact, they never even want to hear your name ever again.

They don't even want to cross paths with you, even if by some miracle you do realise that you need to change and you end up becoming the best version of yourself.

Because the damage that you left behind and that you negated was so great, and so difficult to heal from.

Because they remember how you made them feel, how your actions destroyed their heart, their worth, and their faith and trust in you time and time again.

They remember how many times they had to beg you for the very basics; for your time, your communication, your respect, your compassion, your loyalty and commitment, your appreciation, and someone who could just be a safe space for them; but you gave them none of this.

All you gave them was pain, your chaos, your drama, and in the end your total destruction of who they were before they met you.

They are tired of your lies, they are tired of your endless manipulation and gaslighting that you refuse to acknowledge, and they don't want to give you another chance to try and manipulate them again.

They don't want to remember any part of the past they shared with you, because they realise now that none of it was real anyway.

So please if you happen to see them somewhere, don't say hello, don't ask them how they're doing, don't call out their name, just leave them alone and forget that you even ever knew each other.

They gave you love, when you gave them distance and pain.

Your actions have left scars so deep, scars that may never fully heal, because all you did to the person who loved you with everything they had, and who you convinced that they could trust you and feel safe with you; all you did was show them just how very unsafe the really were, and how very little you really cared.

You're strangers again, and that's the way they want things to remain.

So please, forget their name, forget that you even knew each other, and move on and enjoy the rest of your life.

They deserve better than you, they've remembered their worth again, and they no longer want to hear your name, hear your voice, or see your face ever again.

Their only hope after all of your disrespect, pain, lies, chaos, destruction, damage, and trauma you've caused, is that you can at least understand this because they know you understand and know full well exactly what you did...

 #brokenness #inspirational #motivational #storyteller #everyone