**Don’t let a narcissist convince you that they care about you.**

Words are cheap, and narcissists are experts at using them as weapons—charming, convincing, persuasive words that sound like love, but are really just manipulation in disguise. They’ll tell you they care, that they love you, that you mean everything to them. But their actions? Their actions reveal the truth.

Someone who truly cares about you will **never take joy in your pain**. They won’t mock your vulnerabilities, belittle your dreams, or twist your emotions to maintain control. Real love does not thrive on power games or emotional domination.

A person who genuinely loves you will want to **lift you up**, not tear you down. They’ll celebrate your growth, support your independence, and respect your boundaries. Love is not about possession—it’s about connection. It's about freedom, trust, and *mutual* care.

But a narcissist can’t offer real love because they don’t see you as a whole person. They see you as an extension of themselves—something to manage, manipulate, and mold into what serves them best. And when you don’t comply, they punish you—with silence, cruelty, or blame.

**So don’t fall for their apologies without change.** Don’t believe the sweet words spoken in between the chaos. The pattern is the truth—not the promises. Someone who loves you will never be the source of your unhappiness. They will never make you feel small just to feel big.

**You deserve better than conditional love. You deserve peace, respect, and someone who’s safe to love.** Never settle for anything less.