Narcissistic mothers don’t see daughters—they see supply. Your joy, pain, and attention are currency for their bottomless hunger. They’ll engulf you with guilt or ignore you into oblivion, all to feed their need for control. But here’s the cosmic truth- You are not a resource. You are a supernova, here to blaze trails, not shrink into their shadow Quote from a Narcissist’s Daughter #nottodaynarcissist 🤷‍♀️😉

 

Narcissistic mothers don’t see daughters—they see supply. Your joy, pain, and attention are currency for their bottomless hunger. They’ll engulf you with guilt or ignore you into oblivion, all to feed their need for control. But here’s the cosmic truth- You are not a resource. You are a supernova, here to blaze trails, not shrink into their shadow.

Setting boundaries with a narcissist isn’t cruelty—it’s survival. When she dismisses your pain, weaponises tears, or punishes your independence, it’s not love. It’s fear of losing her drug: you. Daughters of ignoring mothers know this ache—the brutal clarity of being dropped like a used tissue when you dare to say “no.” Daughters of engulfers battle guilt trips disguised as devotion. Both learn the same lesson: Your worth isn’t tied to her approval.

Healing begins when you stop funding her fantasies. Let her rage at your boundaries. Let her sob over your silence. Every “no” is a revolution. Every laugh she can’t control is a declaration: “I am not your supply.”

To every cycle breaker rewriting the script: Your courage costs dearly—loneliness, grief, societal gaslighting—but it’s birthing a legacy where love doesn’t hurt. Keep going. The world needs your fire. 

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