Let me get this straight… you want a woman who works just like you, but when she gets home, she’s still expected to cook, clean, raise the kids, help with homework, manage the house, stay in shape, look good, and be emotionally available—all while paying half the bills too.

And all you do is go to work—and come home?

That’s not partnership.

That’s a second full-time job in heels.

The real madness?

So many women are doing it all…

and still being called lazy. Nagging. Not enough.

Meanwhile, the bare minimum gets praised like it’s a gift from the heavens.

But let’s speak truth:

If she’s contributing financially—you better match her effort at home.

50/50 money means nothing if everything else falls on her shoulders alone.

Being a man isn’t about just bringing home a paycheck.

It’s about showing up for your family. For sharing responsibility. For lifting your partner instead of letting her drown beneath what should be shared.

Because here’s the reality:

women aren’t just tired.

They’re exhausted from carrying emotional, mental, and physical weight alone.

And if that’s what you call love…

you’ve mistaken her strength for servitude.

You’ve taken her loyalty for granted.

She’s not your partner if she’s doing all the heavy lifting.

She’s your employee —and that’s not balance.

That’s betrayal disguised as routine.

- Marilyn Rojas