My mama always said, “Birds of a feather flock together,” and even if you’re not the same bird, people will still paint you with the same brush.

When I got divorced, I was heartbroken. I moved to a new area with no friends, no community, and I ended up around people who weren’t trying to better themselves—or anyone else. I didn’t act like them, but being around that energy dragged me down emotionally and mentally.

One day, I got tired of my own excuses. I picked myself up, changed my mindset, and stopped hanging out with people who didn’t lift me higher. I built a new life from the ground up.

Your circle matters. Protect your energy and your heart. Choose wisely. 🩷🔥