You have to be careful with a narcissist. Even though they treated you poorly—maybe even emotionally, mentally, or physically abused you—they feel no real guilt or remorse for their actions. In their mind, *they* are the victim, and any consequences they face are your fault. They are extremely vindictive, spiteful, and driven by ego. If they feel rejected, exposed, or threatened in any way, they don’t seek understanding—they seek revenge.

That’s why it’s so important to handle things with caution. Don’t try to confront them expecting accountability. Don’t try to avenge yourself thinking it will bring closure. It won’t. It will only provoke them, and in return, they’ll become meaner, more manipulative, and more dangerous. They don’t fight fair—they fight to win, no matter how low they have to sink. And unlike you, they *enjoy* the chaos. They *enjoy* the games. For them, your pain is a source of power.

That’s why your best response isn’t revenge—it’s silence. It’s **no contact**, or **emotionally detached contact** if you have no other choice (such as with co-parenting or legal matters). Don’t feed their ego with attention, emotion, or explanation. Your indifference will be more damaging to them than any words you could ever say. Because narcissists *crave* reactions—good or bad—and when you stop giving them that supply, it eats at their fragile ego.

Focus instead on your healing. Redirect that energy toward rebuilding your life and your peace. *Your best revenge is healing without them.* Thriving silently. Living joyfully. And giving them *nothing*—not even the satisfaction of knowing they still affect you.