I used to think I always had to be in a relationship or that being by myself for too long wasn't healthy...
I don't think that anymore.
I know now time alone can do more for me than any time spent in a relationship- especially an unhealthy one.
It's more important to use my time wisely than to spend time chasing people, love or statuses.
I've learned to be okay with who I am and it took me some time to get to that place.
Now, I'm focused on me, my growth and being better than I was yesterday.
And if someone comes into my life that makes my life better, then I will welcome them with open arms and love them with all my heart...
But what I'm NOT doing is settling for anyone not worth the effort-
The ones that cause more misery than happiness, that spend their time making life more complicated rather than making it more beautiful.
No thanks- I've been there, done that and I'd rather be alone than lonely in a bad relationship.
I want a partner, not a project.
So, for all those people out there that want to think they understand me by a glimpse into my life, think again.
I've been through some stuff and I'm not accepting anything less than what I deserve.
I don't need a partner and I am okay by myself.
I'm alone but never lonely.
There's a difference.
So, yeah, maybe there's no partner in my life to love right now, but that's okay.
My heart won't ever settle again.
Why?
Because I'll always deserve the best.
Anything less and I'll stick to my happy days and solo nights.
The best love comes when it's meant to be , not a moment sooner.
That's where you'll find me-
In the right place at the right time,
Doing my thing, loving my life.
Catch me if you can.
|ravenwolf

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