"You want closure? Why would you seek closure from a liar? A manipulator? A gaslighter, a player, or a smooth-talker? Do you really believe they'll suddenly change and tell you the truth? That overnight they developed the ability to be vulnerable and became someone honest? What you're looking for is something that doesn't exist—not in this time, not in this space. Recognizing this reality is your closure."

You keep searching for answers from someone who only ever gave you questions. You keep looking for truth from someone who couldn't even tell it to themselves. The same person who twisted your reality, who played mind games, who wore masks—how could they suddenly become the person who helps you heal?

Closure isn't something they give. It's something you give yourself when you finally accept that no explanation they offer will ever make up for what they did. Because they don’t feel guilt. They don’t reflect. They don’t grow. They just move on, leaving chaos behind them, like a storm pretending to be the sunshine.

They lied to keep you confused. They manipulated to keep you stuck. They gaslighted to avoid being held accountable. If they had the capacity for honesty, compassion, or remorse, you wouldn’t be here searching for closure—you wouldn’t have needed it in the first place.

You're expecting an apology from someone who doesn't think they did anything wrong. You're waiting for empathy from someone who sees your pain as a weakness to exploit. You’re hoping for a final conversation to bring peace, but they’re only interested in keeping control.

Closure is not found in their words. It’s found in your realization. In your decision to stop chasing clarity from a person who lives in distortion. It’s when you say: “I may never get the truth—but I get to walk away with mine.”

So stop waiting for them to make things right—they won't. Stop hoping for a moment of humanity—they can't give it. Instead, give yourself the truth you already know deep down: it’s over. It was never what it should have been. And the version of them you're hoping for doesn’t exist.

Your closure is this: You deserved better. You see through the lies now. And you refuse to keep looking back at a door that was never truly open.

That is your freedom.

That is your healing.

That is your closure.