If he misses you, he’ll call just to hear your voice. If he wants you, he’ll say it, and if he cares, he’ll show it. If he has a thought about you, it will come out of his mouth without hesitation because when someone truly values you, silence isn’t an option. If you are on his mind nonstop, he will find a way—whether big or small—to remind you of it. He will not wait for the perfect time or make excuses, he will create the moment because losing you is not a risk he is willing to take.

If he truly likes you, nothing will stand in his way. Not distance, not pride, not fear. He will fight for you, protect what he has with you, and make sure you never doubt how deeply you are wanted. Love, when it is real, shows up consistently. It doesn’t leave you questioning, it doesn’t make you beg, and it doesn’t force you to settle for scraps of effort. Real care speaks louder in actions than in empty words.

But if he doesn’t—if he’s inconsistent, if his actions don’t match his words, if he makes you feel like an option instead of a priority—then understand this clearly: he is not worth your time, your heart, or your energy. Because when a man genuinely wants you in his life, he won’t risk losing you. He will prove it over and over again through his actions, not just promises.

Never forget, your value does not diminish simply because someone fails to recognize it. You are not asking for too much—you’re simply asking the wrong person. The right one will give you peace, effort, loyalty, and consistency without being asked, because to him, you’ll never be a burden, you’ll always be a blessing.