What makes the narcissist the most dangerous is this: their brain creates fake memories that justify their behavior.

I’ve had to deal with this. They don’t just tell lies — they believe them. That’s why reasoning with them is impossible. You’re not just arguing with their behavior, you’re arguing with a false reality their mind has already rewritten.

They don’t remember what actually happened. They remember what protects their ego. They twist the past until they become the victim, the hero, or the misunderstood one. And you? You become the aggressor, the problem, the villain in their story.

They cry real tears over lies they told themselves.

They rage over betrayals that never even happened.

They punish you for things you never did.

The scariest part? They’re not pretending. They truly believe it. That’s what makes them so dangerous. You’re not dealing with manipulation anymore. You’re dealing with delusion that looks like truth.

And I can tell you — it’s terrifying. Because once their version is locked in, it becomes fact, not just for them, but for anyone they talk to.

That’s the reality survivors like me have faced. And that’s why I’ll never stop speaking the truth.