Girl… At Some Point You Have to Get Tired for Real

 

Okay. Deep breath.

This isn’t the soft, “you’re doing amazing sweetie” talk.
This is the loving-but-fed-up pep talk. 😌

Girl… how many seasons are you going to call “temporary” before admitting it’s a pattern?

How many times have you said:

• “I’m done.”

• “I deserve better.”

• “I’m sick of this.”

…only to wake up and do the exact same thing the next day?

At some point, it’s not the chapter.
It’s the comfort of the familiar chaos.

You’re Not Confused. You’re Avoiding.

Let’s be honest.

You’re not stuck because you don’t know better.
You’re stuck because change is uncomfortable.

Leaving is scary.
Starting over is scary.
Setting boundaries is scary.

But staying miserable?
Apparently that’s comfortable enough.

And that’s the part we don’t like to admit.

Nothing Changes If You Don’t

Yes, you’ve heard it before.
Yes, it’s cliché.
Yes, it’s annoying.

But it’s still true.

Nothing changes if:

• You keep answering the same calls.

• You keep accepting the same behavior.

• You keep telling yourself “it’ll be different this time.”

• You keep waiting for someone else to grow while you shrink.

You cannot pray for a different outcome while participating in the same behavior.

Ouch. I know.

Comfort Is Keeping You Broke (Emotionally)

Comfort keeps you in:

• That relationship.

• That job.

• That mindset.

• That cycle.

Because at least you know what to expect.

But predictably miserable is still miserable.

And every year you repeat the same chapter, you reinforce the belief that this is what you deserve.

It’s not.

You Don’t Need Motivation. You Need a Decision.

Stop waiting to “feel ready.”

You weren’t ready the last 17 times either.

The shift doesn’t happen when you’re inspired.
It happens when you’re disgusted enough with your own excuses.

That moment when you say:
“Okay. I’m actually done this time.”

That’s when change starts.

Not when you post about it.
Not when you vent about it.
When you move differently.

The Loving Reality Check

You are too smart to keep playing small.
Too aware to keep pretending you don’t see the red flags.
Too capable to keep settling for crumbs.

And deep down?
You know that.

So yes — girl, get your shit together.

Not because you’re failing.
Not because you’re behind.
But because you are powerful enough to stop repeating what hurts you.

The next chapter doesn’t start with hope.

It starts with action.

Now go act like you believe you deserve better. 💅✨