Today marks 32 years since the passing of a man from my childhood who truly changed the trajectory of my life. I saw his brother's remembrance today, and I couldn't let the day pass without honoring someone who meant so much to me.
Larry was the son of my mom's best friend, Miss Nina, but he became so much more than a family friend. He became one of the most influential people in my life.
And oh, if you knew Larry, you KNOW! 😂 The sass, the style, the fabulousness! That man was a DIVA, had absolutely NO filter, and didn't sugarcoat a damn thing! I loved every bit of him.
I experienced a lot of tragedy growing up, and by my teenage years, I was heading down a pretty rough road. I was angry, lost, and making choices that could've changed my life for the worse.
But Larry wasn't having ANY of it! 😂 He believed in me when I didn't believe in myself. He challenged me, held me accountable, and loved me enough to tell me exactly what I needed to hear.
I genuinely believe Larry saved my life. He certainly changed the direction of it.
Even when he was terribly sick, he showed up for my high school graduation. That was Larry. He showed up when it mattered. ❤️
And when the time came for him to leave this world, I was right there holding his hand. I told him it was okay to go, that I would be all right. And because of everything he'd taught me, I knew I would be. That's a moment I'll carry in my heart forever.
Some people judged him for being different, but they missed out on knowing an extraordinary human being. Larry lived unapologetically, loved fiercely, and left a legacy that no judgment or stereotype could ever diminish.
32 years later, I still hear his voice, remember his lessons, and smile thinking about that larger-than-life personality.
A person's legacy isn't defined by how they died, but by how they lived, how they loved, and whose lives they changed along the way.
Larry, I'm living proof of the difference you made. I'll love you, honor you, and carry a little of your fabulous sass with me for the rest of my life! 😂❤️🕊️
I hope I've made you proud.
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