The person who ghosts you is not your soulmate.

The person who won't commit is not your soulmate.

The person who discarded you is not your soulmate.

The person who shows you no empathy is not your soulmate.

Your soulmate doesn’t disappear when life gets messy, when challenges arise, or when emotions run high. They don’t vanish when you need them the most. Your soulmate doesn’t make you question your worth or wonder if you are enough—they see you, truly see you, and value every part of you. They don’t leave you feeling small, invisible, or unwanted. They lift you up, support your dreams, and stand by your side, not out of obligation, but out of love that is unwavering and steadfast.

A soulmate shows patience when you’re struggling, compassion when you’re hurting, and loyalty when the world feels uncertain. They communicate, they nurture, and they never make you feel like you are fighting alone. They bring out the best in you, not because you demand it, but because their presence inspires it naturally. They don’t make you chase them, plead for attention, or beg for love—they offer it freely, abundantly, and without conditions.

Stop wasting your heart on those who run from commitment, empathy, or understanding. Stop hoping for affection from someone who withholds it, and stop accepting crumbs when you deserve the full feast of love. The right person won’t just meet you halfway—they will walk with you every step, through sunshine and storms alike.

You deserve someone who chooses you every day, in every way, without hesitation. Someone who sees your worth, honors your heart, and cherishes the love you bring into their life. Never settle for less than that. Love should never feel like a battle—it should feel like home.