"She’s Not Crazy , She’s A Mirror~~

Men, let’s cut through the bullshit once and for all:

Women don’t just react to what you say, they respond to the energy you bring into the room.

You show up calm, grounded, present?

She exhales. She softens. She blooms like you’re worth blooming for.

You show up tense, silent, emotionally constipated with a side of passive-aggressive?

She pulls back. She snaps. She goes quiet.

And suddenly you’re calling her “moody.”

No my friend, 

She’s not being dramatic.

She’s adapting to survive the emotional climate you created.

You want a soft woman?

Stop being the reason she has to stay strong.

You want peace?

Then stop walking in like a human storm warning.

Stop expecting her to blossom in a greenhouse full of cold shoulders and emotional drought.

She’s not your therapist.

She’s not your self-cleaning trauma bin.

And she’s definitely not here to translate the shit you’re too afraid to say.

She’s a mirror.

She reflects back the version of you she keeps meeting.

If you don’t like the reflection?

Change the fucking source.

Because she’s not responding to one bad day.

She’s responding to the pattern. The silence. The emotional half-presence you keep calling “just how I am.”

If you want warmth, bring it.

If you want love, live it.

If you want softness, be fucking safe to soften around.

She’s not asking for perfection.

She’s asking for presence.

Because when a woman feels safe, seen, and supported?

She doesn’t just thrive. She transcends.

And trust me, there’s nothing more powerful (or confronting) than a woman who reflects the version of you you’ve been too afraid to become.

So,  Wake the fuck up.

Before she stops reflecting…

and starts remembering who she was before she met you."~

~Noah David /Zen Prem