“No more you. No more waiting. I’ll end our chapter here. Thank you.”
That sentence isn’t cold — it’s clear.
And clarity is what happens when you finally stop negotiating with uncertainty.
There comes a moment when waiting stops feeling hopeful and starts feeling disrespectful — to yourself. When “maybe someday” sounds a lot like “not choosing you.” When silence becomes an answer, inconsistency becomes a pattern, and potential becomes a place you no longer live.
This isn’t about anger.
It’s about alignment.
Ending a chapter doesn’t mean the story was a mistake. Some people were meant to be lessons, not lifers. Some connections did their job by showing you what you will no longer tolerate, what you actually need, and how long you’re willing to pour before you finally choose to refill yourself.
And let’s be honest — waiting is expensive.
It costs time.
It costs energy.
It costs parts of yourself you don’t get back.
So when you say “no more you,” what you’re really saying is:
No more abandoning myself.
No more hoping someone will become who they already showed me they weren’t ready to be.
No more delaying my life for a maybe.
Ending the chapter doesn’t require drama, closure speeches, or a final argument. Sometimes the most powerful goodbye is simply moving forward without looking back.
So yes — thank them.
Thank them for the memories.
Thank them for the clarity.
Thank them for the moment you finally chose yourself without guilt.
And then turn the page.
Because the next chapter doesn’t need waiting —
It needs you, fully present, fully aligned, and finally unavailable for anything that requires you to shrink, pause, or beg.
That’s not savage.
That’s self-respect.

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