At a certain point in life, you stop handing out explanations like party favors. You realize not everyone deserves a front-row seat to your life—some people barely qualify for the lobby.
Cutting people off isn’t cruelty. It’s clarity.
When someone moves funny, breaks trust, or treats loyalty like a seasonal trend, the decision becomes easy. No dramatic exits. No long speeches. No “let me explain how you hurt me” TED Talk. Just distance—and peace.
Here’s the truth:
Loyal people don’t need constant reminders on how to act right.
They show up consistently. They move with integrity. They don’t play both sides and call it “just who I am.”
And no, cutting people off doesn’t mean you’re cold.
It means you’re done negotiating your self-respect.
As we get older, tolerance for fake energy drops fast. You learn that loyalty isn’t loud—it’s consistent. Trust isn’t promised—it’s proven. And access to you is a privilege, not a right.
So if someone feels off, shows you who they are, or keeps testing boundaries like they’re optional—believe them. Then act accordingly.
No warnings.
No guilt.
No hesitation.
Because protecting your peace will always be more important than protecting someone else’s comfort.
And that’s not savage…
That’s grown. 💅✨
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