“I woke up today and spun the wheel of attitude…
Yep. It landed on bitch again.”
Some days it’s sunshine and grace.
Some days it’s boundaries and bluntness.
And today? Today is sponsored by self-respect.
Let’s clear something up real quick — attitude doesn’t just appear out of nowhere. It’s usually the result of repeated nonsense, ignored boundaries, and people confusing kindness with unlimited access.
The “bitch” setting tends to activate when:
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You ask the same thing twice.
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You explain yourself for the third time.
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Someone mistakes your patience for permission.
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Or your peace gets tested before your coffee does.
That’s not being mean — that’s being done.
See, emotionally intelligent people still get tired. Healed people still have limits. And confident women don’t owe anyone softness on demand. Some days you get the warm version. Other days you get the “say it with your chest and keep it moving” version.
Both are valid.
And honestly? If someone keeps landing on the wrong side of your attitude wheel, maybe the problem isn’t the wheel — it’s the behavior spinning it.
So no, I’m not apologizing for my tone when my message is clear. I’m not shrinking to make others comfortable. And I’m definitely not diluting my personality for people who don’t respect boundaries.
Call it an attitude if you want.
I call it discernment with a sense of humor.
Spin the wheel tomorrow — maybe it’ll land on grace.
But today?
Buckle up. 😌🔥
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