“To anybody I hurt this year…
I just wanted to say — you deserved it. Stop playing with me.”
Now before anyone clutches their pearls, let’s be clear:
This is not about being cruel.
This is about consequences finally being served warm.
Because there’s a difference between hurting people recklessly and hurting people by no longer tolerating nonsense. And if your feelings got bruised this year, maybe — just maybe — it’s because you kept crossing lines that were clearly marked.
Some folks confuse boundaries with betrayal.
They poke, push, test, and disrespect… then act shocked when access gets revoked or energy shifts.
No.
That wasn’t aggression — that was self-defense.
You don’t get to play with someone’s time, emotions, loyalty, or kindness and expect them to stay sweet forever. Growth doesn’t always come with a gentle tone. Sometimes it shows up as distance. Sometimes it shows up as honesty you weren’t prepared to hear.
And let’s talk about the irony:
The people who benefited most from your silence are usually the loudest when you finally speak up.
This year wasn’t about being nice at all costs.
It was about being honest.
It was about choosing peace over people-pleasing.
It was about matching energy instead of overextending it.
So if you felt “hurt,” ask yourself:
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Were you being respectful?
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Were you being consistent?
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Were you honoring boundaries?
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Or were you just comfortable?
Because discomfort often shows up right before growth.
No grudges.
No revenge arcs.
Just lessons delivered efficiently.
So yes — if your feelings caught a stray, maybe it wasn’t accidental. Maybe it was overdue.
Stop playing.
Start respecting.
And next year?
Move accordingly. 😌🔥
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