The Grand Reopening of Self-Respect (Workshop Permanently Closed)

 

Ah yes… It’s the Crazy Girl.
You know, the one who finally woke up, drank some water, healed a little, and decided she is absolutely done doing emotional community service for grown adults.

Let’s be very clear: this is not Build-A-Bitch Workshop.
There are no tools. No instruction manuals. No “if I just love them harder, they’ll change” return policy.

If you didn’t break it, you are not responsible for fixing it.
Not their communication issues.
Not their emotional immaturity.
Not their trauma disguised as a personality.
Not their inability to take accountability without spiraling into victim mode.

Somewhere along the way, too many of us were taught that being “understanding” meant being exhausted, that being “kind” meant self-abandonment, and that being “strong” meant carrying everyone else while quietly collapsing ourselves. Nope. That season is over. The door is locked. The lights are off. The sign is flipped to CLOSED.

Here’s the glow-up truth:
Growth requires ownership. Healing requires effort. Change requires wanting to change—not outsourcing the work to the nearest emotionally competent woman.

So if someone is mad you stopped fixing, saving, explaining, or softening yourself for their comfort? Congratulations. That means the boundary worked.

You’re not cold.
You’re not cruel.
You’re not “crazy.”

You’re just done bleeding for lessons someone else refuses to learn.

Good luck.
And respectfully… fuck off. 💅🔥