Self-love vs. narcissism, explained in human terms:

Self-love: “I’m a work in progress, and that’s actually kind of cool. I’m growing, I’m learning, and I don’t need a standing ovation from strangers to validate my existence. Also, I’m not competing with anyone—I’m just trying to be a slightly better version of yesterday me.”

Narcissism: “I am the standard. Everyone else is background noise. Growth? Only if it makes me look superior. Feedback? Never heard of her. Also, yes, I will be offended if you don’t recognize my greatness immediately.”

Self-love: takes accountability, gives grace, and keeps it moving.

Narcissism: takes everything personally, gives nothing back, and insists the universe should be grateful for their presence.

One is grounded confidence with humility. The other is confidence on a pogo stick with no brakes.