Welcome to my IDGAF era — where I stopped auditioning for basic human decency like it’s a reality show nobody asked to be on. 💅

Because what do you mean I have to beg for honesty, effort, communication, respect, and consistency? Those are literally the bare minimum, not rare collector’s items.

If love only shows up when it’s convenient for you, keep it.
If respect disappears the second accountability enters the room, keep that too.

I’m no longer overexplaining my worth to people committed to misunderstanding me anyway. Some folks hear your boundaries and immediately translate them into “attitude” because access to you was benefiting them.

That’s not my problem anymore.

And honestly? If somebody has built an entire fictional version of me in their head, I hope they at least gave the character good outfits and a decent soundtrack.

At this point, think whatever you want about me. Then ask yourself:
Did that opinion pay your bills?
Heal your trauma?
Improve your life?
Lower gas prices?
Exactly.

Some people gossip because self-awareness would require too much cardio.

And if you’ve got something to say about me, please say it directly. Don’t wrap disrespect in “I’m just being honest.” That’s not honesty. That’s cowardice wearing lip gloss.

I sleep too good these days to keep correcting people who already decided to misunderstand me before the conversation even started.

Protect your peace.
Match effort accordingly.
And never beg for love that should’ve arrived naturally in the first place.