Something I've been thinking about lately…

I think sometimes when you're too understanding, people can get a little too comfortable overlooking your feelings.

You give grace. You make excuses. You try to see where they're coming from. You understand they're stressed, overwhelmed, or dealing with their own stuff.

But somewhere along the way, you realize you're doing all this understanding while your own feelings are getting completely overlooked. 😬😂

I've learned that I can understand someone without excusing everything they do. I can give grace without having unlimited patience. And I can be kind while still having boundaries.

Because being understanding is a good thing.

Just not when it comes at the expense of understanding yourself.

Apparently, my emotional customer service department has officially reduced its hours.