Stop seeing people as what they could be… see them for what they are.
Healing doesn’t start with forgiveness, wishful thinking, or replaying the “good old days.”
It starts with acceptance.
The first step? Look at people for who they really are — not who you hope they’ll become.
Repeated mistakes aren’t cute quirks.
They aren’t “oopsies” or accidents.
They are patterns, baby. And patterns reveal the true colors you may have been ignoring.
Stop romanticizing people who hurt you.
Stop giving endless chances to someone who treats your love like a boomerang they never meant to catch.
You deserve reality over illusion.
Here’s how to start:
✨ 1. Notice patterns, not apologies.
Words are cheap; actions aren’t.
✨ 2. Honor your boundaries.
No behavior deserves a free pass, no matter how “sorry” someone sounds.
✨ 3. Protect your energy like it’s gold.
Because it is. Your peace is priceless, and repeated mistakes don’t earn a return ticket to your life.
Savage truth: the sooner you accept reality, the sooner you stop wasting your time, your love, and your sanity on people who aren’t worth it.
Remember: growth feels like letting go, not holding on. And sometimes, the bravest thing you can do is say: “I see you. And I’m done.”
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