Sunday, February 27, 2011

Is there a such thing as the perfect life??

I think for so long, I have longed for the perfect life. I think this is why it took me so long in my adult life to allow myself to just be happy. Live in the "Now" and be happy. I was always seeking perfection (In my looks, my career, my family etc) I could never rest and relax because I was striving for perfection so much that I always felt anxious.
It took me a long time to realize that I had to stop living for the future and just live for today.
Focus on the present and make your time and life better now rather than always working towards tomorrow.
Honestly, how do you even know there will be a tomorrow? LIVE NOW.

and that is my inspiration to start this coming week off the right way.

Monday, February 14, 2011

Mean Girls!!! Do females outgrow that stage?

Hello- Hope everyone is having an awesome 2011 so far.
I am!! (well to a certain degree)
I watched mean girls 2 tonight with my 12 year old. The more I discover my true self- the more I realize females sometimes never outgrow this stage. The movie is based on teenage girls and how harsh they can be towards other females. I am at a certain stage in my life that in order to be happy, unfortunately, I need to cut negativity out of my life to a certain degree. I am 34 and I realize just how much some of my friends and family act just like these mean girls. The sad part is that in adults, it is a more sneaky type of attack in females.
Nice to your face, than you turn your back and the knife is stabbed in.

There is a saying that you go through your whole life and by the end of it, you will be able to count your true friends on one hand. The truth in that statement is scary.

I am so tired of phony, fake and downright ignorant females. The healthier I get mentally, the more I see just how evil some people can really be :-(

so it is time to take steps away from that negativity. Some females just never seem to grow up and by giving in to them for so many years, It emotionally drained me. I am happier when I avoid them. Although it does hurt when you feel like you give to people and search for that acceptance and than you come to realize that they just use you anyway.

On another note, my marriage is doing great :-) My daughter is doing wonderful. My mom is getting healthier and I am getting emotionally stronger with each passing day so life is good

I have been slacking a bit on my blog and I am sorry for that. Everyday is a new journey in life :-)

Talk to you soon