There is no such thing as a life without confrontation. You are going to have that in some area of your life at some time. After all, we live in a world of conflicting interests, desires and preferences.
Dealing with confrontation is inevitable but it doesn't necessarily have to seem like a war or lead to hurt or angry feelings, stress, or disappointment. Instead, it's possible to deal with confrontation in a gentle and effective way that will lead to a desired result. If you deal with confrontation effectively, it can actually bring you closer to someone.
People are often too aggressive and defensive during confrontations. They lose their humanity and humility. They approach the issue in a hostile way, as if they are right and the other person is wrong. The assumption seems to be that confrontations are by definition confrontational, and that being aggressive is the best approach.
When you approach your confrontations in a gentle manner, it not only produces more effective results, but it keeps your own stress level down as well. You will receive more cooperation and respect from others and, perhaps most importantly, your own thoughts and feelings will be much nicer.
If you would like for your life to seem less like a battle, this is an excellent place to start.
You only have one life so live it in the happiest way possible.
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