Saturday, December 21, 2024
There will always be voices in your head that will tell you "it's not that important" "you can't" "maybe tomorrow" "why the struggle" "you could have done better" "it will get you no where" 100 of voices that are loud, so loud, and the problem is not because they are loud, it's because they are your own voice Self Help Quote
There will always be voices in your head that will tell you "it's not that important" "you can't" "maybe tomorrow" "why the struggle" "you could have done better" "it will get you no where" 100 of voices that are loud, so loud, and the problem is not because they are loud, it's because they are your own voices, they are coming from within you, when they say a person biggest fight is his mind, they didn't lie, you need to befriend yourself not only to find peace but to tame your own demons, to conquer those shadows of defeat, ego, laziness, negativity and darkness and that would be your biggest triumphs, winning against yourself in a battle where you wanna win and loose equally.
Yasmine Lasheen.
A Love Letter 💌 From Those Who Have Passed On Life Wisdom Quote
Love this!
A love letter from those who have passed on…
Take the love you have for me
And radiate it outwards
Allowing it to touch and impact others
Take the memory you have of me
And use it as a source of inspiration
To live fully, meaningfully and intentionally
Take the image you have of me in your mind
And allow it to fuel you
To take action
Seize the day
And be reminded of what is most important in life
Take the care you have for me
And let it remind you
To care for yourself fully
And shower yourself with your own love
And take the pain and grief you feel
Following my loss
And alchemize it into
Love, compassion and beauty
Build a castle
From the wreckage of my passing
And allow it to unlock your greatness and potential
And empower you to become more than you ever thought you were capable of being
And know that I can never truly leave you
And will always remain beside you
Watching over you in spirit
And that the love I have for you lives on
Through the connections you form
The kindness and compassion you share
And the future relationships and friendships you cultivate.
And until we are one day reunited
I will remain with you
Through the storms and chaos of life
And am always beside you
Walking with you, laughing with you, crying with you and smiling with you
And I am proud of you for being strong
I am proud of you for being brave
And I am proud of you for being you.
Words by Tahlia Hunter
Artwork by Márfy Art, Gabriella Márfy
She takes care of everything and everyone but sometimes she wants to be taken care of too Simple Need To Be Taken Care Of Sometimes Quote
She’s the one that does everything for everyone with a smile on her face.
Her people marvel at her strength and praise her ferocity.
But what they don’t know about this strong woman, what they don’t realize is that even she has her moments of weakness.
The minutes that she steps back from the world, recollects herself and even cries a bit when the weight of her life overwhelms her.
But then she does what she does best:
Pulls herself together, wipes away the tears and recomposes herself … and no one ever even notices a difference.
She’s happy doing what she does and being who she is, but there are just those random fleeting moments where she wishes for once, someone would take charge and take care of her.
Truthfully, she feels weak and guilty for having those moments, but sometimes, it just gets hard always being the rock, the strong woman that can do anything and be everything.
Her entire life, she’s been forced to be the way she is, so she just did what she had to do and never depended on anyone for what she could do herself.
So, when the weariness overtakes her, she quietly muses that she longs to be able to step back and be taken care of..
She’ll always be that strong person able to overcome anything, but even she needs rest-
Not the kind that requires sleep, but the deeper soul recharging sort of respite.
So, she’ll just smile and wistfully hope that one day, maybe she’ll find that brave soul strong enough to be her equal and be her refuge when she needs it…
But she’s not going to expect it or believe it until it happens.
Until that day, she’ll keep doing what she does:
Living fully, loving hard and being the strong woman that does it all.
|ravenwolf
Friday, December 20, 2024
When you know that you are a good person, let them go Quote
When you know you’re a good person.
When you know you did all you could.
When you know you showed up for them.
When you know you gave them your heart.
When you know you allowed things that you shouldn’t have.
When you know your intentions were pure.
And when you know you were genuine about the way you felt.
Let them walk away if that's what they want to do...
Let them leave you.
Let them be completely wrong about you.
Let them speak badly of you.
Let them go be with someone else.
Let them live their life without you.
Let them go...
Don’t worry about seeking revenge for what they did.
Don’t worry about what they’re doing or who they’re with now.
Just let them go.
Let them go completely...
Because none of it matters anymore.
None of it…
When you know you’re a good person; let people show you who they are, because you already know who you are.
Let them lose you...
Because if they couldn't see your worth when they had you, then they don't deserve you at all.
Stay true to who you are, and stay true to your kind, loving, and affectionate heart.
Because when you do, they’re also going to be the type of people that you’re going to attract into your life.
And one day, you'll find someone who will look after your heart in exactly the same way that you look after theirs...
~ Mark Smith
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Dear Narcissist, You might fool hundreds of people into believing you’re something you’re not, but I’ll always be the one who figured you out. I see through the masks, the lies, and the manipulation. You thought you could break me, but here I stand—stronger, wiser, and free Quote
Dear Narcissist,
You thought you could break me, but here I stand—stronger, wiser, and free.
Your power over me is gone.
Your control is shattered.
Your storm didn’t destroy me—it revealed my strength.
Freedom is knowing that I no longer live in your shadow. I walk boldly in the light of my truth, and nothing can take that away from me.
To anyone reading this who feels trapped or broken by a narcissist, hear me now: You are not alone. You have the strength to rise, to reclaim your life, and to break free. Their control does not define you—your courage and resilience do. Stand tall, trust yourself, and take that first step toward the freedom you deserve
When trying to make sense of it, makes no sense at all. You think you’ve hit rock bottom, but continue to fall- It is a homecoming when who you are and what you’re made of, align Inspirational Quote
When trying to make sense of it,
makes no sense at all.
You think you’ve hit rock bottom,
When the only power you have left,
is slowed to a crawl.
You think you’ll give up,
but continue to haul.
When there’s nothing but darkness,
use your heart as your eyes.
Dust off the strength,
that within you resides.
It is what breaks you open,
that shows you your light.
Give warmth to yourself
and from the cold depths revive,
all of the worth you have buried inside.
Embracing your lowest,
clears a path for your highs.
It is a homecoming
when who you are
and what you’re made of, align.
48 Laws of Power Quote
THE 48 LAWS OF POWER.
1. Don't Outshine the Boss: Make your Superiors feel Superior. Don't expose your Talent too much or you might Trigger their Insecurity.
2.Don't Trust friends too much, use your Enemies: Friends Betray you more easily, but if you Manage to WIN an Enemy, they will be more Loyal.
3. Hide your Intentions: Keep People Off Balance so they can't anticipate your Actions.
4. Always say Less than Necessary: Silence Breeds Power, and Talking too much Reveals your Plans.
5. Protect your Reputation at all Costs: Reputation is the Cornerstone of Power.
6. Call Attention at all Costs: Be Visible to be Relevant.
7. Make others Work for you and Attribute it: Take Advantage of the Work and Effort of others to your Advantage.
8. Make others come to you: Don't Run after Others, make them Look for you.
9. Win with Actions, Never Arguments: Prove your Point through Actions, Not Words.
10. Avoid Losers and Unhappy: The Misfortune of others is Contagious; stay away from those who Bring you Down.
11. Make People Depend on you: If others Depend on you, you're in Control.
12. Disarm with Sincerity and Selective Generosity: Emotional Disarmament will give you an Edge.
13. When you ask for Help, Appeal to the Interests of Others: Appeal to what Benefits Others, not Gratitude or Compassion.
14. Introduce yourself as a Friend, act as a Spy: Learn to Extract Valuable Information from others without them Noticing.
15. Crush your Enemy Completely: Do not let your Enemy Recover, or he will seek Revenge.
16. Use Absence to Increase Respect: The Value of something Increases with Scarcity..
17. Keep Others in Suspense: Be Unpredictable, you will Confuse Others and Gain Power.
18. Do Not Isolate yourself: Loneliness Weakens you; Engage yourself in the Web of Influence.
19. Know Who You’re Dealing With: Choose Your Opponents And Partners Wisely.
20. Don't compromise with anyone: Maintain your Independence so you don't get Caught up in other People's Affairs.
21. Pretend to be a Fool to Catch the Sly: Let others think they have an Advantage over you.
22. Use the Surrender Tactic: Sometimes giving in at the Right Time gives you the Advantage.
23. Focus your Forces: Keep your Energy Focused on what really Matters.
24. Be a Master at Simulation and Disguise: Don't reveal all your cards.
25. Recreate your own identity: Be the architect of your own destiny.
26. Keep your hands clean: Make sure the responsibility for the problems falls on others.
27. Play with people's needs to create devotion: Satisfy their deep desires to earn you their loyalty.
28. Be bold in acting: Timidity is dangerous, boldness is powerful.
29. Plan everything to the end: Having a detailed plan allows you to avoid unpleasant surprises.
30. Make your accomplishments look easy: Minimize the effort you put in to make others think you have innate talent.
31. Control Other People's Options: Guide the decisions of others by giving them limited options.
32. Play with people's fantasy: Appeal to people's emotions and dreams to gain clout.
33. Discover the weaknesses of others: Identify what drives people to manipulate their actions.
34. Be rule in your behavior: Power lies in the appearance of greatness and dignity.
35. Master the art of timing: Don't rush; everything has its right time.
36. Despise what you can’t have: Don’t obsess over things that are out of your reach.
37. Create engaging spectacles: Theatrics and spectacles capture attention.
38. Think as you wish, but behave like everyone else: Do not openly defy social norms.
39. Stir the waters to catch fish: Destabilize others to make mistakes.
40. Despise free: What is free usually comes with a hidden cost.
41. Avoid imitating great men: Forge your own path instead of following in the footsteps of others.
42. Beat the shepherd and the sheep will scatter: He demolishes leaders to weaken his followers.
43. Work on the hearts and minds of others: Conquer the spirit of people to control them.
44. Disarm and anger with mirror effect: Reflect the actions of others to destabilize them.
45. Preach the need for change, but never reform too much: Radical change can generate resistance.
46. Never look too perfect: Perfection breeds envy and haters.
47. Don't exceed your goal: When you achieve what you want, retire on time.
48. Be amorphous: Be adaptable, don't limit yourself to a rigid form.
These laws are designed to handle situations of power, but it's important to consider context and personal ethics when applying them.
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Some people just don't understand when you've been through trauma and pain It doesn't matter who holds your hand Things will never be the same Dealing With Trauma Quote
COMFORTABLY NUMB
There are times she feels so alone
Trying to do this thing called living
Aimlessly she wanders and roams
A path that's rocky and unforgiving
There are times she wants to quit
She's trying so hard to rid her depression
It isn't easy she must admit
Sometimes she feels it's her only possession
She is so comfortable feeling this way
A familiar place to be
And sometimes she would rather stay
In the dark, instead of free
Some people just don't understand
When you've been through trauma and pain
It doesn't matter who holds your hand
Things will never be the same
© Janelle Erin Elizabeth Peters all rights reserved 2021 art found on Pinterest
This poem is my most shared and most relatable piece. This poem has reached millions of people. You are not alone
Freedom visited me- it reminded me that no one has control over my mindset, thoughts and wellbeing BUT me Self Love Quote
Patience visited me
And it reminded me
That good things take time to come to fruition
Peace visited me
And it reminded me
That I may remain calm through the storms of life
Regardless of the chaos surrounding me
Hope visited me
And it reminded me
That better times lay ahead
And it would always be there to guide and uplift me
Humility visited me
And it reminded me
That I may achieve it
Not by trying to shrink myself and make myself less
But by focusing on serving the world and uplifting those around me
Kindness visited me
And it reminded me
To be more gentle, forgiving and compassionate toward myself
And those surrounding me
Confidence visited me
And it reminded me
To not conceal or suppress my gifts and talents
In order to make others feel more comfortable
But to embrace what makes me me
Focus visited me
And it reminded me
That other people’s insecurities and judgements about me
Are not my problem
And I should redirect my attention
From others back to me
Freedom visited me
And it reminded me
That no one has control over my mindset, thoughts and wellbeing
But me
And love visited me
And it reminded me
That I need not search for it in others
As it lies within me.
-unknown
Artist unknown
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